Why Should My Child Have Their Own Apple ID?

By Andrea Nelson
July 25, 2024
Mother talking to teen son on couch about child Apple ID

While sharing an Apple ID with your child might be convenient, it’s not a good idea. Not only can it give them unwanted access to your personal data, but it limits the options you have for keeping them safe on their device. Read on to learn how to create an Apple ID for your child, the benefits of a child Apple ID, and how to use Apple parental controls. 

What is an Apple ID? 

An Apple ID is a personal account used for various Apple services such as iCloud, iMessage, and FaceTime. For example, your Apple ID is what allows you to receive texts on your phone and iPad.

But an Apple ID is more than just a login. It’s also tied to the contact, payment, and security details that you use on all Apple services. Perhaps most importantly, your Apple ID is used to back up data from your device. 

Because children under 13 can’t create an Apple ID on their own, you’ll need to set one up for them in Family Sharing. (We’ll get into how to do that in a minute.) 

What are the benefits of a child Apple ID? 

Here are the benefits of creating a child Apple ID for your kiddo: 

  • Access to Family Sharing. A child Apple ID enables your kid to share music, movies, TV shows, books, apps, location, and more through Family Sharing
  • Independence (with guardrails). An Apple ID allows your child to use their own account on their own device. They can even make independent purchasing decisions — a necessary skill they need to build. However, because they’re on a child Apple ID, you can take advantage of integrated parental controls. This means you can set age-appropriate limits on the content they can access, use Screen Time controls, and require approval for purchases and downloads. 
  • Text message monitoring with BrightCanary. BrightCanary offers the most comprehensive monitoring for iPhone and Apple devices, and that includes robust text message monitoring. In order to access this feature through the BrightCanary app, you need your child’s Apple ID. 

What restrictions does a child Apple ID have?

The bulk of the restrictions available on your child’s Apple ID are set through Parental Controls. Some restrictions, like Ask to Buy and filters to restrict adult content, are turned on by default. 

Users on a child Apple ID don’t have full access to Apple Pay. However, they can use Apple Pay to store and use transit cards and keep tickets and boarding passes in the Wallet app. And with Apple Cash Family, they can send, receive, and spend money. 

Parents receive notifications of all transactions. They can also set limits on transaction amounts and who their child can send money to.

What happens to a child’s Apple ID when they turn 13?

Once your child turns 13 (or the equivalent minimum age in your jurisdiction), they’re able to opt out of participation in Family Sharing and keep their original Apple ID. 

Some parents may choose to insist their child remain on Family Sharing as a condition of having a device, but after the age of 13, it’s no longer an Apple requirement. 

We generally recommend that parents make parental controls a requirement for kids who want to have their own devices. 

How to create an Apple ID for your child

Convinced your child needs their own Apple ID? Here’s how to set it up: 

On an iPhone

How to create Apple ID for child on iPhone
  1. Go to Settings > Family.
  2. Tap Add Member No alt supplied for Image.
  3. Tap Create Child Account, then tap Continue.
  4. Enter your child’s name and birth date. (Double check the birth date is correct!)
  5. Follow the on-screen instructions to finish setting up the account.

On a Mac

how to create apple id for child on Mac
  1. Choose Apple Menu  > System Settings, then click Family.
  2. Click Add Member.
  3. Click Create Child Account.
  4. Follow the on-screen instructions to finish setting up the account, and double check that birth date.

If you use iOS 15 or earlier or macOS Monterey or earlier, click here for instructions to set up your child’s Apple ID on your device. 

Final thoughts

It may be tempting to let your child share your Apple ID. But in order to make full use of Apple’s parental control features (and use BrightCanary text message monitoring), you need to set up a separate Apple ID for them. In addition to these measures, it’s also important to regularly communicate with your child about their online activity

teen using phone while parent wonders how can I tell if my child is using a vpn

It can feel like our job is to stay two steps ahead of our kids, while their mission is to stay three steps ahead of us. This is especially true when it comes to the measures we put in place to keep them safe online. VPNs are becoming a popular way for kids to circumvent parental control software. If you’re asking yourself, “How can I tell if my child is using a VPN?” read on to learn about VPNs, how to know if your child is using one, and what you can do about it. 

What is a VPN? 

VPN stands for Virtual Private Network. Originally created as a tool to allow workers to safely log into their corporate network remotely, VPNs work by masking IP addresses. This masking serves two security purposes: 

  1. Makes it appear like the user is in a different location, which makes it more difficult for others to uncover their identity. 
  2. Encrypts incoming and outgoing data so it can’t be intercepted and exploited.

Before you start worrying if you need a VPN, let me put your mind at ease. While VPNs serve a specific purpose in corporate environments, they’re typically unnecessary for the casual user. If your browser’s address bar displays https at the front of a URL, your data is as securely encrypted as it would be using a VPN. And most browsers alert you if a website you’re about to enter is unsecured. 

What you might need to worry about, however, is if your child is using a VPN to get around parental controls. 

Signs your child might be using a VPN

Here are some things to look for if you’re concerned your child might be using a VPN:

  • Unusually high data usage. VPNs increase data use between 4-20%. However, other things can also cause a sudden increase in data use, like social media, streaming services, and gaming. If you notice this happening on your child’s device, treat it as one data point, not conclusive proof. 
  • They’re accessing restricted content. If your child is accessing content you’ve blocked, they’re getting around your controls somehow — and a VPN could be the culprit.  
  • You find a VPN or new browser extension installed. It’s a good idea to periodically check your child’s device. Try typing “VPN” into their phone’s search tool. This will identify whether they’ve downloaded any apps that provide a VPN. You can also look for “VPN” or a VPN icon (often a shield or a lock) near the signal bars on their phone. However, your child is likely savvy enough to not leave the VPN on at all times. One option is to implement periodic spot-checks while they’re actively using the device.

Does a VPN interfere with parental controls? 

VPNs may interfere with parental controls, depending on their purpose. Parental controls that block or restrict content, websites, and apps typically use the user’s IP address to apply the rules you set. If your child uses a VPN, their IP address is masked by a different one, so the filters and restrictions you’ve put in place won’t work. 

VPNs operate at the network level and don’t impact how all parental control apps function. For example, BrightCanary monitors your child’s activity at the account level, so it will still work even if your child uses a VPN. 

What to do if your child is using a VPN

If your child is using a VPN, here are some tips: 

Ask questions 

Your first step is to ask why they’re using a VPN. It’s possible they weren’t trying to hide anything from you at all. For example, some kids use VPNs because they don’t want companies to track them.

Explain the risks

Discuss the importance of online safety and why you want to monitor their exposure to problematic content in the first place. Explain that your goal is to keep them safe, not punish them.  

Use a parental monitoring app they can’t get around with a VPN

BrightCanary can’t be circumvented with a VPN — as long as your child is logged in to the accounts you want to monitor, the app will be able to monitor their activity. 

BrightCanary also uses an approach of information rather than restriction. It gives parents insight into their child’s online activity so they can start conversations with their child if something problematic arises. This is a more effective and sustainable approach than playing whack-a-mole to try and prevent your child from getting around filters and restrictions. 

Final thoughts 

Virtual Private Networks (VPNs) are a surprisingly common method kids use to get around parental controls. To keep children safe online, parents should practice open communication and use appropriate monitoring tools, like BrightCanary, that can’t be subverted by VPNs.

Teen boy using phone according to texting rules

When your child starts texting independently, it’s an exciting time for them — one of new freedoms, but also new risks. Especially as children are first learning how to manage this new privilege, it’s important for families to set texting rules that support them on their journey and help keep them safe. 

Why texting rules are important

Unsupervised texting can lead to a number of unwanted situations, such as: 

Establishing texting rules helps protect against these risks. By following these rules, your child can develop a sense of responsibility while you grant them an appropriate level of independence based on their age and maturity level. 

Establishing texting rules: A step-by-step guide 

If you’re ready to set texting rules for your child, but aren’t sure where to start, here’s a guide to help you: 

Step 1: Have family discussion about why rules are important 

Your children might not love having texting rules in place, but if they understand why they’re so important, they’re much more likely to respect and follow them. 

Explain the reasoning behind the rules in an age-appropriate way. For example, you might explain that strangers may want to talk to your child. Texting rules help you stay informed and keep them safe.

Step 2: Get your child’s input on what rules they think are reasonable 

Once your child understands why they need texting rules, ask them for ideas on what they should be. 

This doesn’t mean they’re in charge — as the adult, you get the final say. But by approaching rule-setting with a collaborative spirit, you’re more likely to get buy-in from your child than if you just impose the rules from on high. They also might surprise you with some good ideas! 

Step 3: Finalize your family’s texting rules

After your child has given their input, decide what rules to put in place. Here are some suggestions: 

  • Expectations for how quickly they should respond to texts from family members. 
  • No-texting zones, such as the dinner table or their bedroom. 
  • Text-free times, like no phones during homework hours and bedtime.
  • Don’t share personal information like addresses or passwords via text.
  • Set your phone to “do not disturb” during homework time, in class, and before bed.
  • Don’t text with people you don’t know in real life.
  • Don’t tap on unfamiliar links from unknown numbers (they could be scams or phishing attempts).
  • Practice good texting etiquette
  • Consent to the use of a text message monitoring app such as BrightCanary.

Step 4: Put it in writing

After you’ve established texting rules and expectations, put it into a digital device contract to encourage accountability. 

Also known as a family media agreement, a digital device contract is a great way to write down expectations and potential consequences. Put the contract somewhere everyone can see!

Frequently asked questions

Here are some of the common questions parents have about setting texting rules for their kids along with our advice:

Is it spying to monitor my child’s texts?

We love that you’re asking this question, because it means you respect your child’s privacy. Kids deserve a reasonable level of privacy, but that must be balanced by the need to keep them safe. 

The two keys to monitoring your child’s texts without invading their privacy are:

  1. Transparency. Let them know ahead of time you’ll be monitoring their texts. Explain how you will do it and what issues you’re looking for. 
  2. Moderation. Don’t snoop around just to look for the latest dirt on their social life. Remember, your objective is their safety. Only monitor as much as you need to spot issues that require your attention. Using a monitoring app like BrightCanary can help with this because you don’t have to read every message; the app will summarize text threads and alert you when it finds a red flag. 

What if my child pushes back? 

They might. It’s sort of their job. Hold firm on what rules are important while remaining open to reasonable feedback from your child. And (gently) remind them they don’t have to love the texting rules — they just have to be able to live with them. 

How do I shift texting rules as my child gets older? 

It’s a good idea to amend your texting rules as your child get’s older and demonstrates responsibility. For example, you might pull back from checking their text threads and only review BrightCanary when there’s something concerning.

There’s no single age at which your child is suddenly more mature and ready for more independence — do what feels right for your family and in communication with your child. 

What if my child has already been texting without any rules? 

The best time to set texting rules is before your child gets a device. But that doesn’t mean it’s not possible to do so after the fact. It may just require more explanation on your part and more adjustment on the part of your child. 

Final thoughts

Kids need texting rules, especially as they’re first starting. There’s no time like today to start the conversation with your child, even if they’ve already been texting independently without rules. Tools like BrightCanary help support safe and responsible texting habits for your child.

Worried father looking at phone because child changed password

In general, passwords shouldn’t be shared. However, there are several valid safety reasons parents might need access to their child’s passwords. But what happens if you discover your child has changed their password without telling you? Should you be concerned? How should you handle it? Read on to learn how to talk to your child about passwords and what to do if they change theirs.  

Reasons to have your child’s passwords

Here are some reasons you might want to have your child’s passwords

Password management

Some kids, especially younger or more forgetful ones, might need parental help keeping track of their passwords. Even if your child is older, it’s not a bad idea to have access to one or two important passwords, such as the master password on their computer or their password manager app. This will save you the headache of the password recovery process. 

Safety and security

It’s important that your kid uses strong passwords in order to keep their information safe. Particularly when your child is new to using technology, it can be a good idea to keep an eye on their passwords to make sure the ones they use are secure. 

Parents may also require access to their child’s passwords in order to periodically check their online activity. 

For a child safety app

If you use BrightCanary to monitor your child’s online activity, you need their passwords. Having their login credentials allows you to remotely monitor their text messages, social media, YouTube, and Google, all from your phone. 

Why kids might change their password 

There are several reasons why your child might change their password and not tell you, and most are nothing to worry about. 

  • They forgot their password. Your child may have forgotten their password, or it might have expired. In both these cases, they easily could have followed the prompts to reset it and not thought to mention it to you. 
  • Boundary testing. It’s totally normal for kids to exert their independence and push boundaries. Even if they have nothing to hide, they might still bristle at the idea of their parents having their passwords. 
  • They’re hiding something. Depending on your child, it may not be the most likely reason, but it’s possible they’re doing something online that they don’t want you to find out about.  

Talking to your child about passwords

If you haven’t already had the password conversation with your child, now’s a great time to start. It’s also a great time for a refresher chat. Here are the important points to emphasize: 

  • Never share your password with anyone (except your parents). 
  • Always choose strong passwords. 
  • Change your passwords regularly. 
  • Develop a system for keeping track of passwords. 
  • Keep parents up to date on new passwords.  

Because password management is so important, consider including these expectations in your digital device contract

What to do if your child changes their password

If you discover (or suspect) that your child changed their password without telling you, it’s smart to follow up with them. Here are some suggestions for how to approach it. 

Talk to them 

Before you jump off the deep end speculating all the awful reasons your child might have changed their password, first take one simple step: ask them. Perhaps they simply forgot to tell you. Finding out why they did it will help inform your next steps. 

Remind them why you need their passwords

Reiterate that you’re not using their passwords to spy on your child, but you need their logins to help keep them safe. Emphasize your goal is to protect and support them and to help them learn to use the internet wisely. 

Enforce any consequences

If you discover your child is intentionally concealing their password and you’ve written a consequence for this into your digital device contract, it’s important to enforce it in order to underscore the importance of the situation. 

Help them set up a password manager 

A password manager is an excellent way to remember and protect passwords for both you and your child. Check out BrightCanary’s Password Vault, available for free in the BrightCanary app. 

You may also want to look into ways to prevent kids from easily changing passwords on their devices. For instance, if your child keeps turning off Apple Screen Time, know that you can set a passcode to limit their access.

Final thoughts 

As a parent, it’s important to teach your child how to manage their passwords, which may mean you need access to them. If they change a password without telling you, the first step is to find out why they did it and remind them why you need access to it. A written agreement about password sharing is a valuable tool to help you in your efforts. 

boy looking at phone in dark on bed

Parental controls help keep your child safe online. But not all parental control apps are created equal — some are prone to glitches, and many are not optimized for iPhones. Others are easy for today’s tech-savvy kids to delete or bypass. Here’s some ways kids can get around popular parental control apps and what to use instead.

How is my child bypassing parental controls?

Ineffective parental controls provide a false sense of security. Here are some of the ways your child might get around parental controls

  • The app runs off your child’s device: Many parental control apps work by installing an app or software on your child’s device. This makes it much easier for them to delete or disable the app.
  • Your child uses an iPhone: Despite the fact that the majority of teens use iPhones, most parental control apps are optimized for Androids and don’t offer the same level of protections on iOS devices.
  • App limitations: Even the most robust apps aren’t perfect. In addition, Android and iPhone operating systems can limit what information apps can control. 
  • They’ve figured out a hack: Just Google “how to get around” plus whatever parental control app you’re using, and you’ll find tons of kid-to-kid advice. There’s even a subreddit devoted to sharing parental control hacks. 

Parental control apps your child can delete or disable

These popular parental control apps are easy for your child to get around.

Bark

While the Android version of Bark includes uninstall protections, if your child figures out the passcode, they can delete it. Kids can also remove Bark by doing a factory reset on their phone. 

And for Apple products, Bark doesn’t come with any uninstall protections. As a stopgap, they recommend using Apple Screen Time so your child can’t delete apps without your permission, but it’s easy for kids to get around Screen Time restrictions

On both Androids and iPhones, kids can go into Airplane Mode before deleting Bark to avoid their parents getting a notification. 

Norton Family

It’s fairly easy for kids to remove or disable the Norton app without their parents being notified. What’s more, when a child deletes the app without the child account being disabled first, it may delete all of the data on their phone, according to one reviewer

On a computer, kids can temporarily disable Norton by closing it in the Tasks Manager. Norton also doesn’t work on iOS for Mac. 

mSpy

mSpy sends parents a notification if the app is uninstalled. However, it lacks any two-step authentication like a device code or account credentials. So, it’s simple for kids to delete it without any significant barriers. Kids can also get around mSpy by using anti-spyware apps or spoofing their location. 

Qustodio

If your child figures out your password, they can disable protection and remove Qustodio from their phone. They can also use incognito or private browsing mode to subvert it. 

Kids can also get around Qustodio by using alternative browsers, such as Tor Browser or VPN-enabled browsers. Qustodio requires specific settings and permissions on your child’s device in order to connect, so if they change these, you’ll lose access. 

What to look for in a parental control app

Now that you know what to avoid, here’s what features to look for: 

  • Doesn’t require anything to be installed on your child’s device. Pick an app that runs off your device. If it requires software on your child’s device, look for a service with uninstall protection.
  • Optimized for your operating system. Whether you’re an Android or an Apple user, find an app that’s designed for your device. 
  • Easy to use. Avoid apps with cumbersome installation or those that require you to regularly update content on your child’s device.
  • Robust privacy protection. Choose an app that encrypts and protects user information.  

What parental control app can’t be deleted?


Apple Screen Time

Apple Screen Time comes built-in on iPhones, offers a lot of options for managing your child’s device, and is very customizable. Plus, it’s free! 

Google Family Link

Google Family Link is an excellent, free parental control app for Android devices. And because it runs off the parent’s account, kids can’t delete it. 

BrightCanary

For iPhone users, BrightCanary is the best parental control app that kids can’t delete. Parents don’t have to install anything on their child’s device to get visibility into what they see, send, and receive online. BrightCanary monitors text messages, Google, YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram — all from the parent’s phone.

Wondering how BrightCanary works? You install the app on your phone, then add the login credentials for the accounts you want to monitor. From your dashboard, you’ll be able to view summaries of what your child is doing online, and we’ll let you know if they encounter anything concerning.

While your child can’t delete BrightCanary, it’s true that they can use alternate accounts to browse the internet and social media (also known as finstas and faketoks). That’s why we recommend using BrightCanary along with conversations about online safety. 

Summary

It’s a parent’s responsibility to help their child stay safe online through parental control apps and regular check-ins. That’s why it’s vital to stay informed and find the right tools for your family’s needs. BrightCanary offers comprehensive monitoring on iPhone devices and, unlike other parental control apps, your child can’t delete it! 

What app lets you read your child's text messages? Screenshots of BrightCanary, Qustodio, and Bark apps

Texting can expose kids to several risks, including explicit images, cyberbullying, and online predators. It’s a good idea to monitor their text messages — staying involved helps you ensure their peer relationships are healthy and that they’re not getting into trouble. Your monitoring efforts should adjust over time as your child matures, so it’s important to use a child safety app that lets you stay involved while respecting their growing independence. But what app lets you read your child’s text messages? Here are a few popular options.

Apps that let you read your child’s text messages

There are a number of apps that let you read your child’s text messages. But some are better than others when it comes to effectiveness, ease of use, and compatibility with Apple devices. 

Bark

Bark uses machine learning to adapt to the latest slang as it scans your child’s device. It’s optimized for text monitoring on Androids, but falls short when it comes to Apple devices. 

On iOS, Bark offers no uninstall protection, and users can’t lock VPN settings. Because of that, and the fact that Bark runs off your child’s device, it’s easy for them to delete Bark and bypass or disable features. 

Installation is also complicated, and monitoring texts on iPhones requires running the desktop app in the background of your home computer. It only scans Apple devices when the child is connected to your home WiFi, so you’re left in the dark until they get back. 

And because you can only view texts related to an alert (even then, you’re only shown a snippet), you’re left without context when you discuss an issue with your child. In most cases, if your child deletes a text, you also can’t view it later.

Qustodio

Qustodio has a robust set of parental controls, an easy-to-use interface, and is one of the few parental control apps that monitors texts on Android. 

However, its features are limited on Apple devices. It also requires an additional app loaded on to your Mac in order to monitor your child’s Apple device. In addition, most features can be bypassed using a VPN, and users report that the app frequently misses relevant texts. 

mSpy

mSpy provides remote, real-time monitoring capabilities for parents, using customizable keywords, but it has some serious drawbacks. 

Because it doesn’t use machine learning to analyze the entire context of the conversation and has no category-based scanning, it can easily miss concerning texts. It also doesn’t include cyberbullying or online predator alerts — two issues which are much more nuanced and can be difficult to capture with only keywords. 

In addition, as the name would imply, mSpy is built around the concept of spying on kids. It features things like remote camera access, a keylogger, and the ability to record phone conversations. This intrusive approach is aimed at “catching” kids in the wrong, rather than a more effective and supportive approach built on teamwork and mutual respect. 

Pinwheel

Pinwheel is a smartphone with built-in parental controls and its own operating system. It requires purchasing a Pinwheel phone (an Android device loaded with the Pinwheel operating system). This means Apple products aren’t an option, and iOS-specific apps aren’t compatible, although parents can run the caregiver app from their own iPhone. 

Not all Pinwheel devices work with all major carriers, so you may need to switch phone plans. Because it doesn’t allow any social media or internet access, it’s a decent option for younger kids. But as your child matures and is ready to learn how to use the internet safely, the Pinwheel phone is no longer an ideal choice. 

BrightCanary

In the world of apps that let you read your child’s texts, BrightCanary stands out for its effectiveness and ease of use on iOS. It uses advanced technology to monitor your child’s texts (along with YouTube, Google, Instagram, and TikTok) and alerts you to any concerns. 

BrightCanary uses large language models to analyze the context of your child’s texts and summarize conversations, so you don’t have to read every individual message (but you can if you need to). The app is able to effectively identify concerning content across a broad range of categories, such as adult images, drugs, and self-harm. 

Parents can view the full content of text messages, as opposed to other apps, which just show snippets. You can even read deleted texts. This means you can go into a conversation with your child with all the information you need to follow up on the issue. 

And because it’s installed on the parent’s device, kids can’t delete or bypass it. BrightCanary is an excellent app for monitoring your child’s text messages on iOS. 

The final word

Monitoring your child’s text messages keeps you informed of any concerns so you can help them stay safe from dangers like cyberbullying, online predators, and adult content. While many apps allow you some access to your child’s texts, BrightCanary offers the most robust, accurate, and user-friendly monitoring and stands out for its stellar compatibility with Apple products. 

Stranger things age rating for kids 14 and older

After lengthy delays due to the pandemic and the SAG/AFTRA strike, Stranger Things is finally filming a much-anticipated fifth and final season. The surrounding buzz has parents wondering about the Stranger Things age rating and if the show is appropriate for kids. To help you decide if this show is right for your child, here are some factors to consider. 

Stranger Things age rating

Stranger Things is rated TV-14 by the TV Parental Guidelines Rating System. According to the rating guide, TV-14 labels are given to shows which contain some material that parents might find unsuitable for children under 14 and parental caution is advised.  

Common Sense Media also ranks the show as suitable for ages 14+. This sci-fi/horror show features some adult content, including violence and gore. 

Language in Stranger Things

There is quite a bit of swearing and other strong language in Stranger Things. Characters also throw up the middle finger quite a bit. Considering the characters will be older in season five, it’s unlikely the language will get any cleaner. 

Stranger Things also includes bullying language, including homophobic slurs and racially charged descriptors. That kind of language might be an accurate reflection of the 1980s-era the show is set in, but parents who don’t want their children exposed to it should take caution — or have a plan to discuss the use of this language together. 

Is there sex and nudity in Stranger Things?

There is mild sex and nudity in Stranger Things. Teen characters frequently kiss, and during one makeout scene, a teen takes off her shirt, exposing her bra. The show also features quite a bit of sexual references, such as orgasm innuendos. Perhaps most disturbing, an adult character discusses their plan to have an affair with an older teen. 

Is there violence in Stranger Things?

Given that Stranger Things bills itself as horror, it should come as no surprise that the violence and gore are quite intense. The show frequently features gruesome deaths, including the deaths of children and teens. Sympathetic characters die, not just bad guys. Monsters also attack, manipulate, and possess characters with some regularity. And there is a fair amount of fistfighting and other teenage rumbling.

Is Stranger Things scary?

Stranger Things is definitely not for the faint of heart. There are slasher-style scares, epic monsters, and child characters who regularly find themselves in extremely dangerous situations. This includes a 12-year-old boy who is abducted and held captive by a super creepy humanoid monster. Needless to say, younger or more sensitive children are likely to be frightened by the content. 

Is there substance use in Stranger Things?

There is some substance use and abuse depicted in Stranger Things. Adults are often seen smoking (hey, it was the ‘80s!), and it’s suggested that one adult character has a problem with prescription pills and alcohol. 

Underage drinking is also depicted, sometimes to excess. Other drugs, such as cannabis and cocaine, are referenced. In season four, a supporting character is often high on marijuana. 

Final thoughts 

Parents should know that Stranger Things features content that may not be appropriate for their child or young teen. It’s generally appropriate for kids over 14, but every child and family are different, so it’s a good idea for parents to evaluate the show and make a decision that’s right for their child and their family’s values. 

If you’re concerned about what your child may be watching, BrightCanary can help you supervise their viewing and other online activity. While BrightCanary doesn’t cover streaming services like Netflix, the app’s advanced technology scans your child’s social media, Google, YouTube, and messages and alerts you when they encounter something concerning. 

Kids can go down rabbit holes when they start looking up their interests online. If your child starts watching Stranger Things videos on YouTube, the platform may start recommending horror content they’re not ready to see on their own. In those instances, it’s helpful to have a child safety system like BrightCanary — so you know when you need to step in. Download BrightCanary and start your free trial today.

hand holding nokia phone over pink wall

Dumb phones are the perfect way to give your child a phone, without letting them have social media at their fingertips. And because of their rising popularity, there are more options on the market now than ever. Read on to learn all about the dumb phone, including our top picks for the best dumb phones for kids. 

What are dumb phones?

Dumb phones are stripped-down devices with basic features such as calling and texting, but without the more advanced options smartphones offer. While some include functions like internet browsing, their design prioritizes essential telephone functions and eliminates addictive temptations like social media

Dumb phone vs. flip phone

Although the terms are often used interchangeably, there’s actually a distinction between dumb phones and their retro counterpart, the flip phone. Unlike flip phones, dumb phones typically resemble smartphones in the way they’re built. Both are pared down devices, but dumb phones usually include some conveniences — like a touch screen, navigation, and the ability to play music — that many flip phones leave out. 

Why more kids are using dumb phones

Gen Z is driving the trend toward dumb phones. There are several reasons for this shift toward less-is-more technology:

Nostalgia

Hot on the heels of the 90’s fashion comeback, the Y2K aesthetic is back in a big way. Many young people are going beyond slip dresses, trucker hats, and low-rise jeans to bring the early aughts to their tech life as well. That includes gravitating toward simpler, turn-of-the-century technology when the bygone Blackberry reigned supreme. 

Mental health 

Experts have sounded the alarm about the youth mental health crisis. While there are multiple contributing factors, it’s now widely recognized that social media contributes to mental health concerns in adolescents. Some teens are taking matters into their own hands and choosing simpler technology solutions that don’t include social media.

Tech fatigue

Perhaps because they were some of the first people to live their entire lives around screens, many Gen Zers are rejecting a tech-centered existence. Opting out of social media, pushing for regulation of big tech, and turning to dumb phones are some of the ways young people are taking control of their relationship with the internet. 

Our picks: Best dumb phones for kids

If you’re interested in getting a dumb phone for your child, there are more options than ever. We’ve rounded up some recommendations to get you started:  

Nokia 225 4G

Cost: $49.99

Compatible carriers: Go Talk, Metro, and T-Mobile.

What makes it stand out: The Nokia 225 4G is a budget-friendly device at the intersection of flip phones and dumb phones. It has the stripped down simplicity of a flip phone, with a few of the bells and whistles you’ll find in the other dumb phones on our list, like a web browser and an Mp3 player. 

Wisephone

Cost: $399, currently available for preorder 

Compatible carriers: This phone can’t be used with any of the major carriers. Techless offers their own plans, starting at $24.99/month.  

What makes it stand out: The Wisephone by Techless bills itself as a “beautiful, boring phone.” With a sleek body that calls the iPhone to mind, the Wisephone comes with essential tools such as navigation, phone and text capability, and a high-quality camera. Users can customize additional features, but you won’t find social media apps anywhere on this device. 

The Light Phone

Cost: $299, currently available for preorder 

Compatible carriers: In addition to their own Light plan, this unlocked 4G LTE cell can be used with T-Mobile, Verizon (no prepaid, no numbershare), AT&T, Ting, Mint, and US Mobile.

What makes it stand out: The Light Phone is adorably small, containing just what you need with none of the frills. It offers talk and text, directions, podcasts, music, and a number of productivity apps. Like our other picks, social media apps are not available for this device. There’s not even a web browser! 

Gabb Phone 

Cost: $199.99 

Compatible carriers: Only available on the Gabb Wireless network. 

What makes it stand out: The Gabb Phone is the only device on our list specifically designed for kids and teens. It includes clean music streaming, safe text messaging, and a parent-managed app library. 

The final word 

Dumb phones are a great device option for kids. They eliminate some of the primary concerns parents have, like access to social media, and offer a minimalist experience for kids looking to cut back on tech. 

Family cooking together

Guilt over not spending enough time with our kids has become as much of a parenting rite of passage as diaper blowouts and teaching them to drive. Modern parents can breathe a sigh of relief, though, because research indicates that it’s more important to focus on quality over quantity. If you’re looking for new ideas for bonding with your kids, here are our team’s top eight tips for spending quality time with family.

1. Family movie night 

Get out the popcorn and make a beeline for the best spot on the couch — it’s time for family movie night. If it’s hard to squeeze in a full movie between dinner and bed, there are plenty of family-friendly TV shows to choose from instead. Consider taking turns on who picks what you watch. 

Not sure if a TV show is safe for kids? Common Sense Media is an excellent resource to help you figure out if content is age-appropriate.

2. Snuggle up and read 

Not only is reading with your child a wonderful way to spend time together, it also supports literacy. Many older children who can read independently still enjoy being read to.

My kiddo and I struggle to read books together because he can’t wait and always finishes them without me. If that sounds familiar, try picking up your own book and reading next to each other. Modeling reading also provides a lot of benefits to kids. Plus, you can’t beat the opportunity to snuggle. 

3. Family dinner

There is an abundance of research pointing to the benefits of eating together as a family, including a positive impact on children’s self-esteem, mental health, and communication skills. If work or activity schedules make family dinners difficult, never fear. The key is a shared meal; it doesn’t matter which one, so long as you’re turning off screens and connecting with each other while you eat.  

4. Tech timeouts

Speaking of turning off screens during meals, creating opportunities for screen-free connection is a great way to enhance the time you spend with your family. Consider establishing screen-free times, such as during dinner or before bed, or designating no-tech zones in your house.

5. Game night 

Pull out the Monopoly board and get ready to bond over some friendly competition. If you’re looking for fresh ideas to revamp your family game night, check out this handy list

6. Cook a meal 

Go a step beyond family dinner and try cooking a meal together. As an added bonus, involve your kids in the planning and shopping, too. Not only will you get to spend quality time together, but they’ll also learn important skills. Here are some recipe ideas and tips to get you started. 

7. Plant a family garden 

Head outside and get your hands dirty. Planting a garden as a family is another excellent way to spend quality time together. Kids will enjoy watching their efforts flourish as the season goes on, and they can pick the fruits of their labor to use in family meals! 

8. Nature scavenger hunt 

A nature scavenger hunt moves your family outside and gets everyone engaged in a shared activity. Scavenger hunts can be tailored to your region or kept generic, and you can increase the complexity if your kids are older or nature buffs.  

boy looking at phone in front of laptop

The evidence is clear: too much screen time can be harmful for kids. To guard against these risks, it’s important that parents take an active role in regulating and monitoring their child’s screen time. Apple’s free Screen Time settings are a great place to start, but how does Apple Screen Time work? And what happens when Screen Time doesn’t work

Read on to learn more about Apple Screen time, including the pros and cons, and what options are available to parents looking to fill in the gaps. 

What is Apple Screen Time? 

Apple Screen Time is a free, built-in feature on all Apple devices. It allows parents to view how much time their child spends in particular apps and websites and control the amount of time they spend on each screen activity. 

How do I set up Screen Time on my child’s iPhone?

There are two ways you can manage Screen Time for your child: on your device through Family Sharing or directly on their phone. Here’s how:

Managing your child’s Screen Time using Family Sharing

First, you’ll need to add your child to a Family Sharing group. You can do that by adding a family member with their Apple ID. 

Once you’ve added your child to Family Sharing, follow these steps:

  1. On your computer, phone, or tablet, go to Settings > Screen Time.
  2. Scroll down to Family and select the name of the child you want to manage.
  3. Follow the on-screen instructions to customize Screen Time settings for your child. You can set time limits, app limits, and even limit App Store and iTunes purchases (we recommend turning this one on!). 
  4. Be sure to enter a Screen Time passcode when prompted so your child can’t change the settings. If you don’t have a Screen Time passcode, here’s how to set it up.

Managing your child’s Screen Time on their device

  1. On your child’s device, go to Settings > Screen Time.
  2. Follow the on-screen instructions to customize Screen Time settings for your child. 
  3. Enter a Screen Time passcode so your child can’t change the settings. 

The pros and cons of Apple Screen Time

Apple Screen Time demo screens with 5 minute alert
Source: Apple

While Apple Screen Time is an excellent tool for parents, it has some downsides and doesn’t address every concern parents may have. Here’s what works and what doesn’t: 

Pros

  • Provides customizable parental controls on most areas of concern, such as content filtering and blocking specific apps and websites.
  • Gives parents the ability to limit who can contact their child through text, phone, and FaceTime. 
  • Parents can limit purchases made on the device. 
  • Allows parents to set screen time limits. 

Cons

  • Parents can’t see what their child does online, only where they spend their time. 
  • It’s complicated (especially when managing multiple kids). 
  • It can be unreliable. It’s not uncommon for screen time limits to randomly go away.
  • Sometimes, settings don’t show up on a child’s device right away. 
  • Kids can get around Apple Screen Time
  • It’s limited to Apple devices, meaning your child’s school device likely isn’t covered. 

How BrightCanary fills in the gaps

If you want to take advantage of the benefits of Apple Screen Time, but are concerned it’s not robust enough, BrightCanary is an excellent companion. 

BrightCanary is a child safety app that gives parents increased visibility into what their kids see, search, and send online. It covers activity across Google, YouTube, social media, and text messages. 

And because all parents can use a helping hand, BrightCanary alerts you if your child encounters any danger online, so you don’t have to look at everything on your own.

Think of it this way: Apple Screen Time helps you limit how much time your child spends on their device. BrightCanary shows you what your child encounters when they’re online and messaging friends.

FAQs

Will Apple Screen Time block or filter my child’s device?

Yes. Using Content & Privacy Restrictions in Screen Time, parents can block or limit specific apps and features on their child’s device. They can also restrict explicit content and prevent purchases and downloads. 

What can parents see on Apple Screen Time?

On Apple Screen Time, parents can see how much time their child spends on specific apps and websites. 

Does Apple Screen Time show text messages?

No. Apple Screen Time does not allow parents to view their child’s texts. For text message monitoring for iPhone, you’ll need an app like BrightCanary.

In short

Apple Screen Time provides parents with useful, but limited, options to manage their child’s screen time. If you want to understand your child’s online activity when they’re using their device, BrightCanary provides parents more insight for iOS devices. 

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