New U.S. Surgeon General’s Advisory Says Parental Stress Is a Public Health Issue

By Rebecca Paredes
September 11, 2024
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Welcome to Parent Pixels, a parenting newsletter filled with practical advice, news, and resources to support you and your kids in the digital age. This week:

  • We have a lot to cover this week, so we’re taking a slightly different format than normal. Let us know what you think!
  • U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has issued a public health advisory about high levels of parental stress and the need to better support families.
  • YouTube will limit content recommendations that promote weight loss to teens.

Digital Parenting

😩 Surgeon General says parental stress is a public health issue: In a new public health advisory, US Surgeon General Murthy called for policy changes that better support parents and caregivers. The advisory noted that 48% of parents report that their stress is completely overwhelming, compared to 26% of other adults. And even though the amount of time parents spend working has increased (+28% for moms, +4% for dads), the amount of time they spend engaged in primary child care has also increased (+40% among moms, +154% among dads). Murthy called for safe, affordable child safe programs, predictable workplaces and understanding workspace leadership, and community centers (such as playgrounds and libraries) that can give children space to play while fostering social connection among parents.

👎Snap and TikTok sued for failures with child safety: The attorney general of New Mexico filed a lawsuit against Snap, the parent company of Snapchat, alleging that the company’s design features (namely, disappearing messages and images) facilitates sexual abuse and fails to protect minors from predation. Additionally, a U.S. appeals court has ruled that TikTok must face a lawsuit over a 10-year-old girl’s death. The girl’s mother, Nylah Anderson, is pursuing claims that TikTok’s algorithm recommended a viral “blackout challenge” to her daughter. 

📹YouTube introduces content rules and new supervisory tools for teens: YouTube is limiting content that could be problematic for teens if viewed repeatedly. This includes content that promotes weight loss, idealized physical appearance, and social aggression. The platform also introduced new parental controls for teen users, allowing parents to link their account to their teen’s in order to view their YouTube activity. Parents will be able to view their child’s uploads, subscriptions, and comments — but not their content. (For that, you’ll need a child safety app like BrightCanary.)


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Tech Talks With Your Child

Even when your child’s social media feed doesn’t explicitly promote eating disorders, content can still encourage unhealthy behaviors or unrealistic body standards in subtle ways. Here are some conversation-starters to help you talk to your kids about content that promotes disordered eating behaviors and body negativity.

  1. “What do you think makes some influencers focus so much on diets and fitness routines? Do you think all of them have healthy habits?”
  2. “Do you ever feel like social media or your friends push you to look a certain way or act a certain way to be accepted? How do you handle that pressure?”
  3. “How do you decide if something online is a healthy suggestion or a harmful one? What helps you know the difference?”
  4. “Why do you think so many influencers use filters or edit their photos? How does that affect how you see yourself or others?”
  5. “If you ever come across content that makes you feel bad about your body or health choices, would you feel comfortable talking to me about it?”

What’s Catching Our Eye

📵 “Just like it is impossible to train your child to drive a car without supervising from the passenger seat, you cannot train your child to be smart online if you are not privy to what he is doing in that world,” writes Melanie Hemp of Be ScreenStrong. Read more about your teen “earning” smartphone privacy.

📱 If your kid keeps getting around Apple Screen Time limits, what are your options? On the BrightCanary blog, we explain common workarounds and how parents can prevent kids from sneaking past their screen time boundaries.

👻 We’re adding a new, much-requested platform to the BrightCanary app in the coming weeks — stay tuned!

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